There is so much diversity and love in this community but you need to search it out, it wont be given to you on a silver platter. Take Initiative, you don’t need someone else’ permission to help others. Witch hunts hurt yourself as much as others involved. Whistle-blow bad behaviour to make them accountable for their actions but make sure you personally have proof prior if you get called out for it. Keep helping others, treat everyone’s style of play with respect, respect peoples consent if they choose not to prescribe to your style. Demand increased after Harvey was assassinated on Novemand the Paramount Flag Company started selling the seven striped version - red, orange. Around 30 volunteers helped to hand-dye and stitch the first two flags for the parade. here is some advice in a nutshell of how I have tried my best to help this community. The original gay pride flag was seen in the San Francisco Gay Freedom Day Parade on June 25, 1978. I tried my best to take initiative to help people in the community and while it has helped many newcomers over the years learn about the fetish in a safe and sane way, I am sad to announce this but very happy that this new generation of volunteers in the community is taking things in a much more loving, caring, informed and inclusive way than things were in the past. Personally I would rather motivate than control anyone. This was never meant to be about me and definitely not a one-man-band. (I refuse to add advertising to protect users personal information) What this means is the resources here are going to become static but still freely accessible until the fundraising cant cover server costs. The lack of volunteers, the hate mail and lack of financial help has meant that current development has been unsustainable for me to keep being involved. Sadly, Active development of Nerdy Doggo and PupPlay.Info is coming to an end in early 2020. Taking it off during arguments is considered rude and disrespectful. If you’re a sub and wearing a consideration, training, or ownership collar you should not take off your collar (assuming it’s not locked or you have access to the key) without your Dom’s permission.
Do not disrespect the relationship or the Dom’s ownership. Some Doms even require that you speak to them before even approaching or conversing with their sub. If you’re a Dom and you see a sub with a collar, you should avoid trying to make advancements of any sort unless you’ve talked it out with their Dom. As for the type of collar given, it’s not the look of it that matters but the bond and meaning behind it. When a Dom gives you a collar they will (or should) tell you the meaning behind it and discuss any questions you may have regarding it. If you have to ask yourself if the collar you’re wearing signifies that you’re owned, then it’s probably not an ownership collar. The meaning behind the collar should not be a game of guess work, especially ownership collars. *If worn out public, these collars can be substituted with a day collar.